Listen up men, when it comes to connecting with the ladies there’s a chance that your “A-game” is actually killing your chances of a happy ending (pun intended).
If you’re trying to use the virtual world to find a date but all you end up with is lukewarm responses or downright cold shoulders then this article is for you. We’re here to help you understand why women are hitting the block button your profile instead of falling head over heels for you!
Fancy a snog? Then read on.
- It’s all about you
Yes, she’s interested in hearing about the time you went to Cairo but she’s not interested in knowing what colour socks you were wearing on your third day in the city. Don’t talk too much about yourself. You never know, she could have been up for a shag before you opened your pandora’s box.
- 2. You’re too forward
Being too forward will definitely scare her off. You don’t want to do that. Try being normal and giving her enough space while you interact with her. Keep noticing her reactions so that you know if you’re making her uncomfortable. She needs time before she gets to the point where she appreciated you trying it on with her.
3. You talk way too much about your ex
She doesn’t want to know how horrible your ex was. She doesn’t want to know how every time you visit a certain restaurant it brings bad memories of her. Stop talking about your ex.
4. You’re sending dick pics before you’re making a connection
Size matters but then again, the size of your brain matters more. Please make a connection before you start creeping her out with unsolicited dick pics. Women do not enjoy this and it actually creeps them out. Trust us, once she gets to know you you can send all the pictures you want – just start with hello when it’s someone new.
5. You don’t know what it’s like to take it slow
You just met her and you’ve planned your whole life with her. Stop! Learn to take things slow. Give her time and don’t be too desperate about it.
6. You stalk her
It’s great that you follow her on Facebook. It’s creepy that you know where she went for her 15th birthday and you have the audacity to tell her that you know. Let her tell you stuff about herself instead of going into a full detective mode.
7. You’re too persistent with someone new
If you’ve just met her, you’re a little above a stranger. Don’t try to act like her best friend. Give her space. If she wants to get to know you more, she will. Being way too persistent will only backfire for you.
8. You try being someone you aren’t
You know you don’t go to the gym. You know she knows you don’t go to the gym. But you won’t stop bragging about that one time you went to the gym. Nobody likes a showoff and nobody definitely likes a liar.
The key to making good connections online is to start by thinking of the other person first. What would they enjoy, how would they react, what would they do, etc. Asking yourself these questions will go a long way in ensuring that you are not making women uncomfortable or freaking them out – after all that’s never your end goal to begin with!
If a guy needs to be told all that. .. he’s not classy enough.
Not all women want a classy guy just one who can control himself, now that’s attractive
Good to see the dick pics being brought up. Seen one dick, you’ve seen them all…Now if it’s a pic of the RIGHT dick, delivered at the right time, then it can be a different story. But do it good and do it right, Boys!
Science has shown that men tend to overestimate how attractive a woman finds them. So be aware too, that we may be being friendly, but that doesn’t mean we’re all competing for your dick.
Whether you’ve sent a pic of it or not…
Women send genetal pics too, personally being a parent I don’t see why it’s necessary for people to do this, why can’t people just wait til it gets physical, let’s face it we all know what each others got, it’s not rocket science
Haha i just loved reading through this.. But how very true it all is… What a shame guys have to bed reminded ??.laughed my head off bout the dicky pickys lol… So many varietys… But of course its how you use a weapon as you guys should already know. ??
And alll
Yes it is amusing but trust me it’s not just guys who need reminding it’s the ladies aswell, and a little politeness and nice manners also go a long way too!
? ? I just love this. But hey guys take a leaf.. Xx
Of course jukes789… Lol… Works both ways… Did find it funny reading it though. ❣️