‘Tailor a first message’ when online dating

Starting up a relationship over the internet is tricky.

People do not want to seem too keen when first getting in contact, as this could send the wrong signals to a prospective partner.

But at the same time, there is no point in sending across a generic message that will spark no interest.

According to an article the Telegraph, individuals need to tailor their correspondence to the person they are contacting.

"Write something personal. Yes, it takes more time, but you're far more likely to get a response if you show you've actually paid attention," it stated.

The most important thing to do is pick a few well-chosen common points, as this will massive increase the chances of getting a reply.

As well as this, individuals should make sure they do not hand over too much information, as they have to leave some details behind in case it does progress to a first date.

Posted by Simon Williams