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Army penpals who are meeting up with somebody for a first date must ensure they are honest and feel relaxed on the occasion.<\/p>\n

The Independent suggests this can break the ice with the other person and make things feel a bit more natural, particularly if single soldiers admit to feeling slightly anxious about the date.<\/p>\n

"There's no need to go into detail. A quick statement like 'I was a bit nervous on the way to meet you' will do," the publication suggests.<\/p>\n

Once this is out of the way it can make the whole date flow a lot better and both parties should relax so they can enjoy it.<\/p>\n

Ensuring plenty of time is spent listening as well as talking is also a good move, as the news source warns some people can come across as self obsessed if they constantly chatter without pausing to ask questions.<\/p>\n

In order to secure the chance of a date, army penpals might consider updating their online profiles, as the Huffington Post recently suggested these should be seen as a CV.<\/p>\n

Posted by Simon Williams
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It’s important for couples to be themselves and be open on their first dates.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5889,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\nArmy penpals 'must be honest on first dates' - Forces Penpals GB<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/forcespenpals.net\/gb\/news\/army-penpals-must-be-honest-on-first-dates\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Army penpals 'must be honest on first dates' - Forces Penpals GB\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"It's important for couples to be themselves and be open on their first dates.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/forcespenpals.net\/gb\/news\/army-penpals-must-be-honest-on-first-dates\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Forces Penpals GB\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2011-02-28T14:27:50+00:00\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Forces Penpals\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Forces Penpals\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"1 minute\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/forcespenpals.net\/gb\/news\/army-penpals-must-be-honest-on-first-dates\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/forcespenpals.net\/gb\/news\/army-penpals-must-be-honest-on-first-dates\/\",\"name\":\"Army penpals 'must be honest on first dates' - 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