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she added.<\/p>\n<p> Further advice came from psychiatrist Catherine Birndorf recently, who told the McClatchy-Tribune News Service those who are unattached should be open to new things, such as online dating.<\/p>\n<p> Posted by Simon Williams<br> &nbsp;<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"ADNFCR-2867-ID-800258444-ADNFCR\" src=\"http:\/\/feeds.directnews.co.uk\/feedtrack\/justcopyright.gif?feedid=2867&amp;itemid=800258444\"\/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Those using online dating should present themselves at their best, it has been suggested. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6048,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.5 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Over-confidence &#039;not advisable&#039; 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