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Single soldiers hoping to find a partner should remain optimistic when dating, it has been suggested.<\/p>\n

The Sydney Morning Herald advised taking risks can prove beneficial in the long run.<\/p>\n

It noted believing ‘everything is going to be ok’ is a positive step and is a message that should be remembered at all times.<\/p>\n

Happiness in love is possible if people can accept this fact, the news provider explained.<\/p>\n

It claimed daters should think: “That you’re ok, that trying and failing is ok, that rejection is just another opportunity, that hope isn’t foolish and disappointment is necessary to improvement.”<\/p>\n

Individuals should make the first move when attracted to somebody because all they have to lose is their excuse for not trying in the first place, the outlet added.<\/p>\n

Single soldiers might also want to turn their attentions to online dating after a report by Shiny Shiny showed the internet can bring people together regardless of location.<\/p>\n

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