{"id":3103,"date":"2015-05-30T14:48:34","date_gmt":"2015-05-30T14:48:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/forcespenpals.net\/p=?3103"},"modified":"2015-05-30T14:48:34","modified_gmt":"2015-05-30T14:48:34","slug":"a-guide-to-dating-etiquette","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/forcespenpals.net\/gb\/news\/a-guide-to-dating-etiquette\/","title":{"rendered":"A guide to dating etiquette"},"content":{"rendered":"

Observing the unwritten rules of dating can help to make a good impression on a date and improve your romance life.<\/p>\n

For some people, dating comes naturally, whereas others have not been so lucky.<\/p>\n

Of course, every relationship is different, and to some extent, the etiquette will vary depending upon the country you are in and the type of person you are dating.<\/p>\n

If the chemistry between you and your dating partner is strong, the likelihood is that you will probably find some way to make it work between you both.<\/p>\n

Below, we take a look at some of the main etiquette tips.<\/p>\n

Don't get drunk<\/strong><\/p>\n

Getting drunk on your first date is never a good idea. The last thing you want to do is risk causing offence or saying something you will later come to regret.<\/p>\n

If you know you can get a little crazy when you are drunk, then it is best to avoid the alcohol until you know each other better.<\/p>\n

While many of us like to swap stories of what we did when we were drunk with our mates, it is unlikely to impress your date.<\/p>\n

Swearing<\/strong><\/p>\n

Swearing is another big no-no. Although it is rare that you will come across people who are prude about swearing, again, it is bad practice to do this the first time you meet someone.<\/p>\n

It will just make you seem uncouth and can give someone the wrong idea about you.<\/p>\n

Lateness<\/strong><\/p>\n

Turning up late on your date is unlikely to score you any brownie points. The last thing you want to do is keep the other person waiting for you. <\/p>\n

It can come across as extremely disrespectful and could lead to the other person thinking that you are not taking the date seriously.<\/p>\n

To avoid being late, you should leave extra time to get to wherever you have decided to meet.<\/p>\n

If for some unavoidable reason you are going to be late, be sure to let the other person know in advance.<\/p>\n

Making the first move<\/strong><\/p>\n

In most places across Europe, and indeed the world, men are usually the ones to make the first move.<\/p>\n

However, there are other countries, such as Switzerland where women are the first to make a move.<\/p>\n

Paying<\/strong><\/p>\n

It is always a good idea for men to pay for the first date. Subsequent dates can be worked out.<\/p>\n

If you are a man, and you do pay, you must understand that there are no conditions attached or obligations on the part of the other person.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you are a woman, it is important to be considerate and and offer to pay your half of the bill or buy the guy a drink, to show that you are not a gold digger.<\/p>\n

Keep the politics out<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sometimes subjects such as politics and religion comes up on a first date. However, it is never a good idea to bring this up when you are just getting to know someone, as this can be a bit of a tricky area to venture into.<\/p>\n

You do not want to risk creating an argument, or offending someone unwittingly if they turn out to have very strong opinions or different views from you.<\/p>\n

Often, people put their preferences in terms of the type of political views a potential partner should have on their dating profile, however, the best approach is to be open minded and tolerant.<\/p>\n

At worst, you should agree to disagree, as it is not uncommon for people to be able to enjoy a long and fulfilling relationship with someone who has different views from their own.<\/p>\n

However, none of this should be brought up when you are first getting to know someone.\"ADNFCR-2867-ID-801789348-ADNFCR\"<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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