{"id":28,"date":"2009-12-17T17:50:00","date_gmt":"2009-12-17T17:50:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/forcespenpals.net\/p=?28"},"modified":"2009-12-17T17:50:00","modified_gmt":"2009-12-17T17:50:00","slug":"confidence-the-key-to-becoming-a-champion-flirt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/forcespenpals.net\/gb\/news\/confidence-the-key-to-becoming-a-champion-flirt\/","title":{"rendered":"Confidence ‘the key to becoming a champion flirt’"},"content":{"rendered":"

Women looking to attract hot soldiers should try and boost their confidence in order to become a champion flirt, an expert has claimed.<\/p>\n

Sue Ostler, relationship author and the Metro’s Flirt Diva, says the best way to boost a girl’s chances are to take up every invitation and really work at their social skills.<\/p>\n

Confidence is the key to making the relevant body language and banter become more fluid, natural and effective, she claims.<\/p>\n

It is not a one-size-fits-all scenario though, she claims, as people flirt for lots of different reasons and in many ways.<\/p>\n

Ms Ostler says: "Some [flirt] because it’s fun, some because they can and some because they genuinely want to ignite a romance."<\/p>\n

Recent research by the University of Portsmouth claims that honing flirting skills could be the key to getting a hot soldier.<\/p>\n

Evolutionary psychologist Dr Edward Morrison says: "The face is where we exhibit our most explicit signals – it’s the human equivalent of the peacock’s tail."\"ADNFCR-2867-ID-19519454-ADNFCR\"<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Confidence is the main thing to develop in order to become an accomplished flirt.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6664,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\nConfidence 'the key to becoming a champion flirt' - Forces Penpals GB<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/forcespenpals.net\/gb\/news\/confidence-the-key-to-becoming-a-champion-flirt\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Confidence 'the key to becoming a champion flirt' - Forces Penpals GB\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Confidence is the main thing to develop in order to become an accomplished flirt.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/forcespenpals.net\/gb\/news\/confidence-the-key-to-becoming-a-champion-flirt\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Forces Penpals GB\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2009-12-17T17:50:00+00:00\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Forces Penpals\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Forces Penpals\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"1 minute\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/forcespenpals.net\/gb\/news\/confidence-the-key-to-becoming-a-champion-flirt\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/forcespenpals.net\/gb\/news\/confidence-the-key-to-becoming-a-champion-flirt\/\",\"name\":\"Confidence 'the key to becoming a champion flirt' - 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