{"id":2713,"date":"2014-03-17T17:15:54","date_gmt":"2014-03-17T17:15:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/forcespenpals.net\/p=?2713"},"modified":"2014-03-17T17:15:54","modified_gmt":"2014-03-17T17:15:54","slug":"pursue-online-dating-like-a-job-says-expert","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/forcespenpals.net\/gb\/news\/pursue-online-dating-like-a-job-says-expert\/","title":{"rendered":"Pursue online dating like a job, says expert"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>People who sign up to online dating sites have been advised to pursue the activity with the same determination as they would a potential new job.<\/p>\n<p>Julie Spira, an online dating expert, author and founder of cyberdatingexpert.com, told Canadian Living there are many similarities between the two ventures.<\/p>\n<p>Anyone hunting for a new job is likely to spend time on their CV before searching high and low for exciting and suitable positions.<\/p>\n<p>It is no different when it comes to looking on online dating sites for a partner, as those who are prepared to put in the hard graft will likely succeed.<\/p>\n<p>There are comparisons to be drawn between being called for an interview and arranging a first date, while being unsuccessful once should not be enough to put anyone off.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;Make the kind of effort that you put into your business resume and consider your online profile your love life resume,&quot; Ms Spira stated.<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"ADNFCR-2867-ID-801703984-ADNFCR\" src=\"http:\/\/feeds.directnews.co.uk\/feedtrack\/justcopyright.gif?feedid=2867&amp;itemid=801703984\"\/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Showing commitment to finding a partner online is a 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