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While some men who join online dating sites might think mentioning their previous partners is a bad idea, it can actually be an incredibly successful tactic.<\/p>\n

That is the view of a study published last month by Zoosk and reported by the Daily Telegraph, which urged men to open up about divorces and exes.<\/p>\n

Relationships coach Susan Quilliam said women could be more likely to get in touch with a man who mentions a divorce as it reassures them that he is now single.<\/p>\n

"If men talk about exes, women get the impression he's being honest and open about his relationship status now," she explained.<\/p>\n

However, this does not necessarily work when the roles are reversed, as men can be put off the prospect of a woman who appears to have plenty of relationship history.<\/p>\n

As such, it can be worth people of different genders taking a varying approach to online dating, changing how much they reveal to prospective partners.\"ADNFCR-2867-ID-801696427-ADNFCR\"<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Men should not shy away from their feelings on online dating sites.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4022,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\nOnline daters 'should mention divorce and previous relationships' - Forces Penpals GB<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/forcespenpals.net\/gb\/news\/online-daters-should-mention-divorce-and-previous-relationships\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Online daters 'should mention divorce and previous relationships' - Forces Penpals GB\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" 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