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Drawing up an online dating profile is a tricky prospect for anyone looking for love.<\/p>\n

People will want to come across as interesting and confident, but at the same time they will be keen to avoid giving away too much information.<\/p>\n

Finding this perfect balance could be the difference between being invited on a slew of dates and being left fidgeting while waiting for the offers to come in.<\/p>\n

Julie Spira, an online dating expert and relationship coach, noted people should not be afraid to cast a wide net in their search for love.<\/p>\n

Writing in the Huffington Post, she stated: "Don't be too judgemental or you will appear like a Debbie or Donny Downer. Leave the negative adjectives out of your profile and focus on more positive statements."<\/p>\n

Ms Spira added individuals should never be afraid to talk about their family when on a date, as strong family values are seen as a positive trait.<\/p>\n

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