{"id":1868,"date":"2012-11-28T11:56:12","date_gmt":"2012-11-28T11:56:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/forcespenpals.net\/p=?1868"},"modified":"2012-11-28T11:56:12","modified_gmt":"2012-11-28T11:56:12","slug":"men-need-to-send-ladies-the-right-text-message","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/forcespenpals.net\/gb\/news\/men-need-to-send-ladies-the-right-text-message\/","title":{"rendered":"Men need to send ladies &#8216;the right text message&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Men need to put time and effort into thinking about what to text a girl they are interested in.<\/p>\n<p>This is the opinion of dating expert Carlos Xuma, who noted that guys will be looking to show ladies they have a mixture of confidence, nonchalance and integrity.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;Often girls look at text conversations as that first doorway. If a guy blows it here, he often won't make it through that doorway,&quot; he added.<\/p>\n<p>Mr Xuma &ndash; author of The Bad Boy Formula and Secrets of the Alpha Male &ndash; pointed to the character of James Bond as the kind of man that women will typically be interested in.<\/p>\n<p>Coming across as self-assured is vital if guys are going to secure a face-to-face meeting, where they can then use their personality to build up a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>However, men should steer clear of being too cheesy, as this may harm their long-term chances of love.<\/p>\n<p>Posted by Samantha Thompson<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"ADNFCR-2867-ID-801496400-ADNFCR\" src=\"http:\/\/feeds.directnews.co.uk\/feedtrack\/justcopyright.gif?feedid=2867&amp;itemid=801496400\"\/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It is vital that men get the introductory text message correct.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4824,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1868","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-armed-forces-dating"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v25.2 - 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