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Online daters who decide to meet their potential partner for the first time would be wise to bear a few tips in mind when planning the rendez-vous.<\/p>\n

Dating expert Laura Bilotta, who has set up her own matchmaking service, tells Canadian publication Metro London there are certain things that couples should or should not do.<\/p>\n

"Some people tend to be shy, so if you ask them questions where they have to speak, they'll probably open up quicker. [Think] open-ended questions so it's not just a yes\/no answer," she suggests.<\/p>\n

Those who think they have to go out for a meal on a first date might find other activities more enjoyable.<\/p>\n

Ms Bilotta claims the former option can be a bit awkward, but keeping things light by heading for a coffee or a walk could be more effective.<\/p>\n

Another point to remember is not to discuss past relationships, as it is important not to give the impression that an ex is still in the picture.<\/p>\n

A recent article in the Independent suggested people follow dating etiquette when they are chatting online and remember their manners.<\/p>\n

Posted by Samantha Thompson
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